– In September 2012, I left for college. Not only did I leave my mom, dad, brother, pets and other close family members for one of the most confusing, exciting and independent experiences of my life, I left behind the love of my life. People say that long distance will not workout and that it will be so challenging. When you can face those challenges with patience, understanding and compassion, they turn out to not really be challenges, but a life lesson on relationships. Mine is not perfect, but what is perfect anyway? A social idea of how a relationship should look? Each relationship is unique and special in its own ways. –
To the one whom my soul loves,
For 2 years, you had been by my side each and every day. We grew up together, graduated high school together and found a best friend in one another. I couldn’t imagine a life without you.
You came with my family and dropped me off at my dorm room for the very first time, kissed me goodbye and let me cry into your chest. Our lives were forever changing (so it seemed).
It was tough being without you, my best friend, for the first couple of months, but being the social butterfly I am, I flourished in my dorm community. I got to make friends with people I would have never met if it weren’t for going to WWU. I learned so much about myself and the world around me so quickly, I began to change and develop values and beliefs that I had never known I had. You watched me change, accepted me and questioned me. I was able to teach you everything I’ve learned.
We had our battles and we had our fears, but the love and faith you had in me and I had in you kept us strong. Strong enough for you to ask my parents for their permission to marry their little girl. That summer you got on your knee in front of our families and closest friends. You asked me to be your wife and to forever be your one true love. Our lives were forever changing.
It’s been 3 years and I am about to graduate from college. You have allowed me to grow into a dedicated and compassionate woman. I have learned to be patient and to be grateful for the time I have on this earth. I cherish the relationships I have with every one I have met. I am proud of the hard work I have put into my schooling and also into our relationship.
In a little over 3 months I’ll be walking in my graduation ceremony and finally holding onto my diploma, and I’ll finally be home with you for the rest of our lives. This time is coming to an end here at school and I thank you for allowing me time to be independent and to spend time on my school work and giving me the time I need to continue growing my friendships.
In a little over 4 months, I’ll be walking down the aisle and meeting you at the alter. In front of our families and closest friends we will vow a life spent loving and cherishing one another. Our lives are going to be changed forever.
With you, life is exciting, the world is brighter and my heart is warm. And I am so excited for our lives to continue to change forever.
Thank you for giving me your heart, your dedication and your patience and for providing me with a warm hug when I need one the most.
Allahna Fisher 